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  What it means

  Literally, “With a good husband, a good wife.” The proverb says that a happy, successful marriage depends on both partners: a good spouse brings out the best in the other. More broadly, it says that people are shaped by those around them. You become better when you spend time with good people. It may be used to praise a couple or to comment on how partners affect each other.

  English equivalent

  Behind every great man is a great woman (related sentiment, though broader here)

  Vocabulary

  • u dobrego męża — with a good husband, by a good husband ('mąż' = husband, genitive after 'u')
  • dobra — good (feminine nominative, agreeing with 'żona')
  • żona — wife

  Grammar note

  The preposition 'u' takes the genitive case: 'dobrego męża' is the genitive of 'dobry mąż.' In Polish, 'u' + genitive often means proximity, association, or possession ('at/with/by'). This is an equative sentence: 'U dobrego męża [jest] dobra żona.' The verb 'jest' (is) is left out, as often happens in Polish proverbs and nominal sentences.

  Cultural context

  This proverb comes from traditional Polish ideas about marriage and the influence spouses have on each other. It is often used warmly, as praise for a happy couple or as folk advice about choosing a good partner. Its gender roles are old-fashioned, but today it can also mean that good people bring out goodness in others. The tone is warm and neutral.

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