Ożeń syna, kiedy zechcesz, a wydaj córkę, kiedy możesz
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What it means
Marry off your son whenever you like, but marry off your daughter as soon as you can. This traditional saying reflects old views: a son could wait, but a daughter’s marriage prospects were seen as time-sensitive.
Vocabulary
- ożenić — to marry off (a son)
- syn — son
- wydać — to marry off (a daughter), to give away
- córka — daughter
- zechcieć — to want, to wish (when you feel like it)
- móc — to be able to, can
Grammar note
'Ożeń' and 'wydaj' are imperative forms. 'Syna' and 'córkę' are accusative objects.
Cultural context
It reflects traditional Polish patriarchal views of marriage. 'Wydać córkę' (literally 'to give out a daughter') is the usual phrase for marrying off a daughter.
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