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  What it means

  Literally: “He who comes late harms himself.” If you arrive late — to a meeting, an opportunity, or a situation — you are the one who suffers the consequences. Others won’t wait, and you miss out. Poles use it universally: to excuse lateness as self-inflicted, to remind others to be punctual, or as a mild rebuke to a latecomer.

  English equivalent

  The early bird catches the worm. / He who hesitates is lost.

  Vocabulary

  • kto — he who, whoever
  • późno — late (adverb)
  • przychodzi — comes, arrives (third person singular of przychodzić)
  • sam sobie — himself / to himself (reflexive: 'alone to himself')
  • szkodzi — harms, hurts (third person singular of szkodzić)

  Grammar note

  'Sam sobie' is a reflexive dative construction: 'sobie' is the dative reflexive pronoun, and 'sam' intensifies it ('himself alone'). 'Szkodzić' takes the dative — you harm *to* someone — making 'sobie' the indirect object. This dative-of-harm construction is worth learning as a productive pattern.

  Cultural context

  Despite the stereotype of Polish lateness (known as 'Polish time' in colloquial speech), this proverb is widely quoted and well known. It is often said with a wry smile when someone arrives late, making it part self-awareness and part gentle mockery. It is very neutral in register and used across all age groups.

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