Jeszcze się taki nie urodził, co by wszystkim dogodził
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What it means
“No one has yet been born who could please everyone.” The proverb is a realistic, pragmatic reminder that trying to satisfy everybody is futile. Poles use it to encourage someone worrying excessively about others’ opinions, or to justify an unpopular decision: if someone complains, the proverb says it was inevitable. It has a slightly fatalistic but ultimately liberating tone — accept that some dissatisfaction is unavoidable and act anyway.
English equivalent
You can't please everyone.
Vocabulary
- jeszcze — yet, still
- taki — such a one (masculine indefinite pronoun functioning as subject)
- urodził się — was born (past perfective of urodzić się)
- co by — who would/could (relative pronoun + conditional particle)
- wszystkim — everyone (dative plural of wszyscy — required after dogodzić)
- dogodził — pleased, satisfied (past perfective of dogodzić + dative)
Grammar note
'Co by + past tense' is a conditional relative clause meaning 'who would/could.' The verb dogodzić takes the dative case: dogodzić komuś (to please someone), so wszystkim is dative plural. The structure 'nie urodził się taki, co by…' is a negated existential claim common in Polish folk speech. The perfective aspect of both verbs emphasises definitive, completed actions.
Cultural context
This proverb is extremely common in Polish everyday speech and appears across all social registers, from casual conversation to published writing. It carries a tone of world-weary wisdom without being pessimistic. In informal speech it is often shortened to 'Nie można wszystkim dogodzić.' Equivalent expressions exist in virtually every European language, suggesting a shared folk insight about the impossibility of universal approval.
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